The Sun in your sign through May 20, combined with the New Moon, also in your sign, on May 13, are likely to boost your self-confidence this month. The trick, though, is that you have to do something new and different -- from your appearance to your attitude -- rather than digging in your heels and resisting. Allowing yourself to be a little silly can be good for you through May 19 as your loving ruling planet Venus moves through playful Gemini. Being more in the present and less concerned with the future can be surprisingly relaxing and inviting to others. Venus enters security-conscious Cancer on May 19, and you may start looking for a safer place in partnerships. Caution is recommended, but hiding out entirely is a formula for loneliness.